Have patience with me, I had knee surgery 5/20/24 after being forced to be less active for over a year, it's going to take some time for me to get back my strength & endurance but I am now starting to take on new matches. No offense if I don't take on you because you want to get out your aggression, I'm more interested in responsibly returning to wrestling safely.

I put effort into my profile & I'll put effort into chatting if I'm interested but if you don't put effort into either I'll likely ignore you. Wrestling & Brazialian Jiu Jitsu accounts for a lot of my identity in a way I haven't seen much of in the gay community & I love it for different reasons depending on who I'm with & what the other person is looking for. That makes writing this very challenging because people tend to look at the whole rather than just what is appealing to them & I would encourage you to focus on what resonates for you.

I train BJJ & have always wanted to do pin styles as well. It's rare in a competitive or learning setting that I am turned on by it, I really am passionate about the sports. I do have a passion for teaching like any nerd you ask about that special interest I am a little too willing to share so communicate if that's something you do or don't want. Really, if you asked me to train ANY form of grappling I would be down & enthusiastic. Yeah, I'd buy a langot & attend kushti practice, I'd get a kispet & get oily. I might be less enthusiastic about sumo. I don't do staged or cyber though.

That being said, I am 95% gay & playing with men who are looking for an interaction frowned upon in those settings is why I'm here. Even when it's competitive & not sexual it's different rolling as your more authentic self. There is a difficulty there in that my mindset is trained & my headspace goes to the dojo or tournament space when competition is there meaning the harder we roll the less of a sexual experience it can be for me.

For most people on here I have more mat time & formal training so in a lot of matches I tend to be more of a heel. The only time it isn't fun is when someone's ego gets bruised, they get frustrated etc. If you want it to be competitive & an even match but don't have training it might be hard to accomplish partly because there are rolling patterns in untrained wrestlers that set them up to get swept & submitted very easily & if you click on the little house at the top right of this text you'll go to my youtube channel that I set up to help you get past that. Really getting a few fundamental concepts down will absolutely level the playing field in your favor.

If you want to dominate me I will totally let you. I'm a BDSM switch & I really love being put in subby positions. I love being pinned, crushed, squeezed in different bodyscissors, choked etc. I honestly got into wrestling because of my sp&ex fetish & bodyscissors. My whole sexuality developed around that, I discovered an authentic love of the sport later in life. I have videos on the youtube channel all about scissors & squeeze play. I will say that once we begin playing I want to lose myself to your lack of mercy & light squeezes with phrases like "oooh that's so hot, yeah take it boy" will make me want to put you in your place. If I'm struggling to breathe & the dominance is real then I get really subby. I've had people squeeze me because they think I'll like it & that is not the same as a Dom doing it because it gives them gratification & that's an important distinction.

If I top a squeeze scene I am cruel & enjoy challenging you. I don't have to go full power, but I want to find a range where I can control your level of distress. It turns me on to see a boy conflicted about tapping or enduring. I want to keep you in that place as long as I can. Anyone can put someone out with a choke or headscissor but it's a life goal to do it with a bodyscissor (would love being on the other end of it too).

I love sp&ex, singlets, speedos, sungas, compression shorts, tights, etc, nice balls & a good vpl, great legs. I like the smell of a man's bulge in sp&ex. Not looking for sex but if the chemistry is right I'm open to where things go & I am cautious with STI prevention.

I've had a rough year because of my injury & I'm burnt out on empty profiles & people not opening with what they are looking for when they message me. I see people like that as time wasters & find it rude. Don't be upset if I reply saying basically this if you are not going to put in the effort. 20+ years of meeting people on sites like this for wrestling & only 1 in 10 people who message me turn into matches not because we weren't a fit but because for so many people getting them to talk about what they want ends up feeling like an interrogation. I'm not going to share your pics, I'm not going to hunt you down & tell your family or employer about what you do in your private life. If you can't trust me enough to share, don't reach out.